A reader writes in to ask:
I was wondering if guys who go to stripclubs would like or would want to be approached by women who go to stripclubs. Do you have any idea how guys would feel about this? Has this happened before? How to approach them?
That’s the gist of it, at least. See, the guy who wrote in to ask was a dude. Oh sure, he said his name was “Linda”, but he sure didn’t write like a woman. He got into some graphic detail about what he’d like to do/have done, and while I’m sure lots of girls would like to do all kinds of unmentionable things to lots of guys, they’re usually more discreet. Besides, that’s really not what this space is about. The Internet is a big BIG world and there’s lots of room to get filthy if you wish. That ain’t what this is about.
But Steve does bring up an interesting question. What is the role of the civilian women in the strip club? It’s been interesting to observe women at different clubs and how they interact with the dancers on stage. I’ve seen women recoil in horror at having a dancer bend over and shove her crotch in the customer’s face. I’ve seen a civilian jump up on stage and tae it all off for one song. Mostly they fall into two groups. There are the girls who are there to reward their boyfriends or because their boyfriends asked politely. It’s probably as close as the guy will get to a) a threesome or b) watching his girlfriend with another girl. Both are major early-21st Century male fantasies. These types of girls can usually be found at the Dolphin or Club 205 or similar suburban place.
The closer you get to downtown, the more likely you are to run into the PBR-drinking girl who’s out to have a good time with a group of friends. Usually her boyfriend is involved, though not always. But she’s out to have a beer or appletini and wave some dollar bills in the air. Where the civilians at the Dolphin are kind of reserved (not all of them, mind you…just more often than not), the ones at Sassy’s or Cabaret I are more open with the girls. And those women are certainly more likely to approach a guy. At least that’s what I see.
I’ll throw it out to you, gentle reader. Have you seen many single women at the club? Do they generally mix it up? Or are they wallflowering it?